Dear Heloise: Two years ago, a friend asked me to attend a self-defense class with her because she felt uncomfortable going alone. So, I agreed, and it was the smartest thing I’ve ever done. This past Christmas while I was out shopping one evening, I was busy placing packages in the trunk ...

Dear Heloise: I read your hint about how to unclog spray paint nozzles in the Plain Dealer. Years ago, I found an easy solution to prevent clogging. When you have finished using the spray paint, turn the can upside down so that the nozzle is on the bottom and the can is above. Then press the ...

Dear Annie: My parents have been in a rocky marriage for as long as I can remember. I’m 16, and my brother is 20 and away at college. My dad has left and come back a few times, and now he’s telling my mom again that he’s done and wants her to move out. She’s heartbroken, and it’s ...

Dear Annie: I’ve been married for 38 years, and over time I’ve realized that I’ve slowly lost a sense of who I am. My husband is a good man in many ways, but he’s always the one who decides where we go, what we do and who we spend time with. If something doesn’t interest him, it ...

Dear Heloise: As so many are doing their spring cleaning, I’m sure they’re also preparing once-loved goods for donations. I’ve been volunteering for a small nonprofit that distributes clothing to families in need. We spend much time sorting through, throwing out and redonating the ...

Dear Annie: I remarried a few years ago after losing my first wife, and my current wife also lost her husband. We both came into the marriage with grown children, and while blending two families always comes with challenges, most of the relationships have settled well -- except for one. My ...